Exodus 15:26 ASV “….and he said, If thou wilt diligently hearken to the voice of Jehovah thy God, and wilt do that which is right in his eyes, and wilt give ear to his commandments, and keep all his statutes, I will put none of the diseases upon thee, which I have put upon the Egyptians: for I am Jehovah that healeth thee.”
That’s the place where God set up rules and procedures; that’s where he started testing them.
God said, “If you listen, listen obediently to how God tells you to live……”
Once you’ve made the decision to LISTEN then OBEY what your told. Obedient listening is one of the laws of success with God.
“IF” implies a choice has to be made. Obedient Listening always starts with a choice of our will to obey (and prosper), or not listen (pay attention) and fail (suffer loss and/or destruction).
No matter where you are in your life you are the sum total of your choices; good, bad and ugly. That includes those choices yo made on how to respond to “unfair” disasters in your life. How we respond is a choice.
We live in a society that tries to make others or circumstances responsible for the results in their lives. In reality, we are the owner of our choices. Want to change the outcomes in your life? Take ownership of your choices .
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